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vihugo on Sep 22, 2007

I definitely vote for #1!

Enjoy your attitude, it will not last for long, believe me!

Cheers vihugo

iqon on Sep 22, 2007

Avast Pero ye 'ave more issues than me monkey.

    Some guys have all the luck
    Some guys have all the pain
    Some guys get all the breaks
    Some guys do nothing but complain
        — "Some Guys Have All The Luck" by Jeff Fortgang

RULE #1: He who cares the least wins

Completely ignore her - she will be happy to be rid of you OR she'll come flying back to you. Either way you win (assuming you want a crazy chick).

    This indecisions bugging me
    If you dont want me, set me free
    Exactly whom I'm supposed to be
    Don't you know which clothes even fit me?
    Come on and let me know
    Should I cool it or should I blow?

    Should I stay or should I go now?
    If I go there will be trouble
    And if I stay it will be double
    So you gotta let me know
    Should I stay or should I go?
        — "Should I Stay Or Should I Go" by Mick Jones of The Clash

louiemctool on Sep 22, 2007

talk about trippin' balls: i think iQon's trippin' back to the '80s...

:p

anti on Sep 22, 2007

I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members.
- Groucho Marx

Crazy
For thinking that my love could hold you
I'm crazy for tryin'
Crazy for cryin'
And I'm crazy
For lovin' you
- Willie Nelson

elnitido52 on Sep 22, 2007

Swaying room as the music starts
Strangers making the most of the dark
Two by two their bodies become one

I se
e you through the smokey air
Can't you feel the weight of my stare
You're so close but still a world away
What I'm dying to say, is that

I'm crazy for you
Touch me once and you'll know it's true
I never wanted anyone like this
It's all brand new, you'll feel it in my kiss
I'm crazy for you, crazy for you

Trying hard to control my heart
I walk over to where you are
Eye to eye we need no words at all

Slowly now we begin to move
Every breath I'm deeper into you
Soon we two are standing still in time
If you read my mind, you'll see

I'm crazy for you
Touch me once and you'll know it's true
I never wanted anyone like this
I'ts all brand new, you'll feel it in my kiss
You'll feel it in my kiss because
I'm crazy for you
Touch me once and you'll know it's true
I never wanted anyone like this
Its all brand new, you'll feel it in my kiss
im crazy for you,
crazy for you
crazy for you
crazy for you

its all brand new, im crazy for you
and you know its true, im crazy, crazy for you
its all brand new, im crazy for you
and you know its true, yeah, Im crazy for you
Crazy for you baby
im crazy for you

Madonna

@Pero - Ignore her. You will survive.

terremom on Sep 22, 2007

I'm confused...guess it must have something to do with 10 years marriage to my 1st love, and then no dating since I left him 14 years ago. I need to get out more! Take care and "cuidado con tu corazón, amigo.

Some Love is just a Light of the Heart.
The core remains of what began with a passionate start.
And they may not want it to end
But It will it's just a Question of When...
It's a Matter of Trust.
-Billy Joel

gswd on Sep 22, 2007

Since my divorce 20 years ago, I've dated, but never loved. Now following the advice of Jimmy Buffet: "I'm looking for a smart woman in a real short skirt".

louiemctool on Sep 22, 2007

okay, here's my real answer:

i think by "girlfriend" you really mean "sex buddy." which, if it works for you, have fun. be warned, however, that you're setting yourself up to be a bitter, lonely old man...

my advice is to take a step back from how you're approaching the opposite sex, and try to take the question of dating a little more seriously. stop basing every relationship on physical lust, and try to actually connect with someone before you take it to the next level...

and, of course, feel free to ignore my advice. it is your life, after all...

:)

vihugo on Sep 22, 2007

That's what I meant, louiemctool! Couldn't have said it better. Hoping the best for a young unexperienced stallion is the only thing we can do ;). At least live will show him what he did wrong -- after years ;(.

Cheers!!

terremom on Sep 22, 2007

Sex is definitely overated. 6 children (and nearly 5 granchildren later), I find it a bother. Sort of like a nervous facial tick.

williamlief on Sep 22, 2007

@ Terremom, the actual lyrics of A Matter of Trust are:
"Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
And they may not want it to end
But it will, it's just a question of when"

I am mildly obsessed with Billy Joel, and I felt it necessary to post a correction.

terremom on Sep 22, 2007

Duly noted, Williamlief. Thanks for keeping things pure. Take care

Pero on Sep 23, 2007

Whoa, a lot of comments here, well, the problem is I am 19, and I think this is the time when I should party out and experience as much things as possible and settle down later, let's say 30?

But I keep getting in as many and many situations where a girl wants to break up with me and she doesn't have the courage to tell it to me in the face and then she doesn't answer the phone, doesn't reply to SMS messages and the list could go on into infinity but that's the complete opposite to my approach. When I want to break up with a girl I simply tell her that and end of story.

iqon on Sep 23, 2007

Ye need this song playing in the background the when ye leave her a message:

    You're as cold as ice, you're willing to sacrifice our love
    You never take advice, someday you'll pay the price, I know

    I've seen it before, it happens all the time
    You're closing the door, you leave the world behind
    You're digging for gold, you're throwing away
    A fortune in feelings, but someday you'll pay
        —"Cold As Ice" by Mick Jones and Lou Gramm of Foreigner

Adharmaha on Sep 23, 2007

Here's my real comment for you, you pesky little bug. Send over all your present gfs and exes to me. You're a schmuck anyway! HAHA!

ZsaZsa on Sep 23, 2007

Pero, the girl not responding is a response. For a variety of reasons, they are just not that into you (haha I love saying that about a guy!). You are being young and foolish, they are being young and foolish. Some may be upset because they didn't realize they were just for fun and others just love to be called and called "Can you believe it, Pero called me again!"

Pero on Sep 23, 2007

Ahh Zsa Zsa who would know such a thing :D.

cheiie on Sep 23, 2007

But I keep getting in as many and many situations where a girl wants to break up with me and she doesn't have the courage to tell it to me in the face and then she doesn't answer the phone, doesn't reply to SMS messages and the list could go on into infinity but that's the complete opposite to my approach

You reap what you sow. If you showed the girls they are not important to you, then breaking up with you 'properly' will not be important to them.

webmonkey on Sep 23, 2007

Going through so many relationships only gives you more and more "emotional baggage" and it seems like you are already carrying a bit. Every time you get involved with someone it will make the next relationship more difficult. Have you ever thought of not having or hunting for a girlfriend? (No, I don't mean getting a boyfriend instead.<l> )
Being "unattached" is not a sign that you are not worthy of a relationship, it is a sign that you are strong enough and have enough respect for yourself to be very careful whom you choose to be close to.
Wow, what's with all the song lyrics??!! You all are a bit sappy, you know? <l>

Pero on Sep 24, 2007

Thank you very much for all of your advices, but she finally called back and we met and I dumped her, easy going :D.

terremom on Sep 24, 2007

Now you can concentrate on what's really important...
take care of yourself, Terre